Opinion essay

My ideal family would be a kind of a traditional family. For example my own family. My parents, my brother and me live together in our house, but the relationship between us is very difficult. I would like to have a family where the others just care as little as they need to and you enough space to live your own life.

Most people think of the traditional family. Then they hear the word “family”. They think of it because the traditional family is the best thing for a growing child to become an important member for the society. While the father is working to bring the on the table, the mother is working half days to bring enough money for the children so they can purchase anything they like. In my opinion this is a good type of family, because if the kids get everything they want they will have to work hard if they want to keep their lifestyle. But this can only work if the parents give their children much space and don’t watch them like they don’t know how to work with money.

In my opinion the best relationship within a family is when everybody loves each other equally but this doesn’t work. So the best option could be that one parent is giving his attention to one child and the other parent to the other child. I think this system is working for some families but not for all so there is another option. Each parent is giving each child the same treat. The parents should be interested in what the kids do but they should not ask and know everything that happens in the kids’ life.

In my opinion the importance of a working family in a society is undeniable. If families are not working it is very bad for society. Like a child whom is growing up in a family which is not working they have a slight tendency of slipping in the crime scene. So if the families are not working the majority of the youth is going to be a criminal and if that happens the society will collapse.

To sum up my ideal family would be a traditional family with not to much caring parents, a good relationship between the familymembers so they help each other out and the family have to work otherwise it’s going to ruin the society.

© Markus Lampert